In the world of wedding decor, every detail matters, especially when it comes to creating an inclusive and welcoming atmosphere for all guests. For same-sex male couples, a "Two Grooms Pick a Seat" sign is not just a piece of decor—it's a statement of love and acceptance. This unique signage not only guides your ceremony guests but also adds a personalized touch to your special day. In this blog post, we’ll explore the significance of gay wedding seating signs, how to design custom signage, and why this display is a must-have for your ceremony.

​In recent years, weddings have become more than just a ceremony; they are a celebration of love, equality, and individuality. For LGBTQ couples, particularly same-sex men, the wedding day is an opportunity to openly express their love and commitment. Inclusive wedding signage, like a "Two Grooms Pick a Seat" sign, plays a crucial role in setting the tone for the event. It symbolizes acceptance and unity, encouraging guests to sit wherever they feel comfortable, thus breaking away from traditional seating norms. This approach not only makes everyone feel welcome but also emphasizes that love knows no boundaries.

​Creating custom signage for your wedding offers a unique opportunity to reflect your personality and the theme of your event. When designing a "Two Grooms Pick a Seat" sign, consider incorporating elements that resonate with you and your partner. This could include your wedding colors, a favorite quote, or even symbols that hold special meaning. At Blue Bonsai Printing, we specialize in turning your vision into reality, ensuring that your signage complements your overall wedding decor. Whether you prefer a minimalist design or something more elaborate, our team is here to help you create a memorable piece that guests will admire.

​Once you have your custom sign, the next step is deciding how to display it effectively during your ceremony. Placement is key. Consider positioning the sign at the entrance of the ceremony space, where it can be easily seen by arriving guests. You might also want to place smaller versions of the sign at various points throughout the venue to reinforce the message. Additionally, using easels or decorative stands can enhance the visual appeal of your sign, making it an integral part of your wedding decor.

​A well-thought-out seating guide not only helps guests find their place but also adds to their overall experience. For a "Two Grooms Pick a Seat" sign, the message is clear: guests are free to sit wherever they choose, promoting a sense of community and togetherness. This approach can be particularly beneficial for family members and friends who may not know each other well, as it encourages mingling and interaction. By removing the traditional "groom's side" and "bride's side" divisions, you create a more relaxed and inclusive atmosphere.

At Blue Bonsai Printing, we understand the importance of every detail in your wedding planning. Our commitment to quality and customer satisfaction sets us apart as a trusted partner in creating beautiful, custom wedding signage. We offer a range of design options and materials to suit your needs, ensuring that your "Two Grooms Pick a Seat" sign is both durable and visually stunning. Let us help you celebrate your love story with signage that speaks to who you are as a couple.

A "Two Grooms Pick a Seat" sign is more than just a piece of decor; it's a celebration of love and inclusivity. By choosing custom signage that reflects your personality and values, you create a welcoming environment for all your guests. At Blue Bonsai Printing, we are dedicated to helping you make your wedding day as unique and special as your love story. Let us be a part of your journey in creating unforgettable memories.

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I get this question a lot…. “Do you do Disney invitations?”  My answer is always “I do Disney inspired invitations but it is a tricky navigation with copyright.”

Let me start with some facts:

1. Copyright and licensure laws in the United States are air tight.  They also include “throwing the book” at offenders as a standard.  This is to deter people from violating them.
2. But people still do.  Look at Etsy and it is a very quick search to see how many people are not caring about copyright laws.  Whether that be ignorance or disregard, I cannot say.  But I am sure everyone fits into one of those categories.
3. Disney does license their copyrighted material.  The price and limitations are very clear.  It is possible and expensive.
4. I am not a lawyer and none of this should be seen as legal advice.  This is all from personal experience.

So in reference to copyright law…. I will not violate it.  If it is a question, my answer is no.  This goes for many things, not just Disney wedding invitations.  I have had couples contact me with a design and asked me to recreate it.  Nope.  Sorry.  Not that I can’t, just that I won’t.  I am happy to reach out and see if any of the stationers I know originally did the design and pass their information on to you.  I have done this on numerous occasions.

Etsy…. See my blog about my feelings towards Etsy.  It’s not all shade.  Just when it comes to the copyright violation that is rampantly allowed.  (Insert deep breath here).  The major problem I have is that people design illegal products, sell them, and then the customer is stuck with a useless product.  Let me tell you a scenario I have experienced more times than I can count.  Jane buys a digital design off Etsy and is told “You can print them anywhere” in the listing description.  Wrong.  They go to get their digital product printed and nowhere will print them.  Not Vistaprint. Not FedEx. Not Target, Walmart, Walgreens, Office Depot, Costco or any other printing place.  Everywhere tells Jane that it violates copyright for them to print it.  This is true.  It violates copyright because they cannot profit in any way from it.  Jane then comes to me because I am a small business thinking that I will do it.  Sorry.  I always feel bad for Jane because she was duped.

Now as I said, Disney does license their copyrighted things.  They have a very large licensure office and the people there are very nice.  I had a couple who wanted to use characters on their invitations and I reached out to Disney to see about licensing.  They were happy to give me a price and limitations (and there were many!).  But that is their right.  If I had a couple that wanted to do that I would happily do it again.

Now that we’ve gotten through all the Debbie Downer stuff, let’s talk about what is possible.  I can make a Disney inspired invitation. Options I have done are using colors and fonts that are similar and give the same feel.  Using a colored envelope, like a bright gold or lilac color, can fit well with a Disney theme.

So you can have invitations that can be very nice and fit a Disney themed wedding without actually having Disney characters or other copyrighted materials on them. 

Check out some of my other blogs for inspired invitations:
Beauty and the Beast
Wizard of Oz

Keyword: Disney, wedding, wedding invitations, Disney wedding invitations

There is a lot to know about addressing your envelopes.  You can be formal or informal with your addressing.  You can also get creative with your formatting, but don’t get too creative or the post office won’t deliver.

For save the dates you can choose to be formal or informal with the addressing, it is up to you.  Generally, save the dates are informal and invitations are formal.  But not in call cases.

When deciding the format of addressing- formal or more casual- should follow the theme of your wedding.  If you are having a black tie affair in a ballroom you should follow all addressing etiquette for a formal affair.  If you are having a more cocktail attire wedding you can choose to be more casual in your addressing.  If you are having a rustic wedding you can choose to be pretty casual.  Ultimately it is your choice but it is a good idea to be in line with the theme and style of your wedding.
Here are some examples:

Formal wording (Using formal names and spelling out all words. No nicknames for guests): 

Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Smith
1234 Southwest Main Street
Anywhere, Oregon 97520

Informal/less casual than formal(Nicknames and abbreviations are ok):

Mr. & Mrs. Chris Smith
1234 SW Main St
Anywhere, OR 97520

Very casual (Just following basic addressing rules that the post office requires):

Chris & Jenny Smith
1234 SW Main St
Anywhere, OR 97520

You will notice that not only is the writing for the names different but also the addresses themselves.  A formal address will have everything spelled out.  There is no right or wrong choice.  There are just ones that may fit your wedding better than the others.  If you are working with a stationer that offers guest addressing they can help with which format to use.  Or you can always reach out and I can help with addressing or give you guidance.

Note about non-heterosexual couples: If you have guests that are members of the LGBTQ community you may have questions related to that. You would follow the same formality choice as your other invitations but there would be changes in the names.   Here are some examples of how to address the names:

Same-sex couple (whether they identify as male or female):

Mr. Christopher Smith and Mr. Jeffrey Davis
Mr. Chris Smith & Mr. Jeff Davis
Chris Smith & Jeff Davis

Gender fluid, queer, or does not identify as one gender:

Mx. Jamie Barnes and Ms. Jennifer Evans
Mx. Jamie Barnes & Ms. Jenny Evans
Jamie Barnes & Jenny Evans

Envelope addressing can be a stressful part of wedding planning.  From the hand cramps to the etiquette to the formatting, it can all be a source of stress.  Most stationers offer guest addressing.  Discuss the options with your stationer or reach out to me for more guidance and options.

Keywords: wedding invitations, save the dates, guest addressing

Every year Pantone (a color specialist company that sets the standards for color coding for consistency across design platforms and printers) picks a color of the year.  They take into account the trends across fashion, design and art and pick what they think will be a trending color of the year.  They have been doing this for over 20 years.

2021 is a banner year as there is not one color of the year but two.  Illuminating and Ultimate Gray share the honor of being selected.  The combination of the colors, according to Pantone is "practical and rock solid but at the same time warming and optimistic, the union of [the colors] is one of strength and positivity."  With they way the world has been in 2020 we could all use some strength and positivity. 

Yellows have always signified cheerfulness, calmness, and essentially "a light at the end of the tunnel."  That there are brighter things ahead.  Gray is a color of stability, strength, fortitude, resilience, and a firm foundation.  The union of these two colors is very calming.

Learn more about Pantone and the Color of the Year here:  www.pantone.com/color-of-the-year-2021

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